Catch Yourself

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Remember that we have said, that all Thought, Word and Deed is Creative.

You get back Exactly what you send out.

So, when you send out the thought, "Why is she so hard to live with? Why is he always behaving like this?"

Ask yourself, what exactly are you doing?

Now focus here, as this is so obvious, you could miss it. And, in fact, most do.

Take away the "question" from your sentence, and essentially, you are saying:

"She is so hard to live with". "He is always behaving like this".

Do you see what you are doing?

Remember, all thought is creative...

You have just created the very behavior in that person, that you wish to change. Simply because you do not understand the Law of Radiation and Attraction.

Now, try an experiment:

Take someone in your life, that you love, but sometimes have trouble getting along with.

Think, about the thoughts you have projected about that person. The Negative thoughts. Ask yourself, does the behavior that you do not like in that person, in any way correspond to the thoughts you have been having about them? If you're honest with yourself, it's a strong bet that it does.

Sure they may have behaved that way in the first place, to make you notice that you didn't like it, but we all have off-days sometimes. The more you focus on that behavior, the more you are going to see of it. It's just Life doing what it does, and conforming to your expectations about the way it will be for you.

Now, having recognized this, what will you do about it?

Simply notice your Negative thoughts as they arise, literally "catch yourself" as you are having them. And then, simply change your perspective. Focus instead, about the things you like about this person, how you love their smile, the sound of their happy laughter; the way they do such-and-such nice thing, how helpful and loving they can be. Keep putting those positive thought out. Persevere, as you my have a bit of negative work to undo first, but just keep catching yourself, and focusing on the positive.

Then prepare yourself for an "almost magical" transformation of your circumstances.

Always monitor your thoughts, and pay attention to their Quality; because what you think about is directly related to what you will see around you, and what Life will show you. It is the difference be conscious and subconscious Creation.

HH - 2008

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